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How to Claim Your Power Now!

Feb 14, 2023

Now that you’ve shed what no longer serves you, it’s time to claim your power. Take 100% responsibility for your life and happiness.

Last week, I wrote how the inner work of this time of life is to:

1. SHED WHAT NO LONGER SUITS US.

2. CLAIM OUR POWER.

3. STEP INTO A BRIGHTER, MORE AUTHENTIC FUTURE.

Last week, I focused on shedding what no longer suits us. Healing what needs to be healed. Grieving what needs to be grieved. Letting go of what no longer suits us.

This week, I want to focus on step 2.

Claiming Our Power

Claiming our power is about honoring who we really are at our authentic core. What we truly want. What makes us happy. Who makes us happy. What kind of activities make us happy.

AND UNAPOLOGETICALLY CREATING LIVES THAT REFLECT OUR AUTHENTIC SELVES.

To do this, we need to spend some time exploring and getting to know our true selves. The selves we are today. It doesn’t really matter who we used to be, what we used to like, who we used to like to hang out with.

IN OUR MIDLIFE DECADES, WE ARE BEING REBORN AS THE PEOPLE WE ARE RIGHT NOW.

So, this is the time to explore, what do you want?

What does purposeful work look like for you? How do you want to contribute to Society?

What would optimal health be for you?

What would a fulfilling romantic relationship/partnership be for you?
What would supportive and inspiring friendships look like for you?
What would satisfying relationships with your kids look like? With your family?
Who do you want to surround yourself with?
What do you enjoy doing?
What do you no longer enjoy doing?
What are your soul needs?
What kind of environment do you want to spend your time in?
What does optimal fun and relaxation look like for you?

The questions may go on and on.

And the Universe does its part to remind us that our ceiling is only it’s floor.

In the process of answering them, we may need to revisit step 1 and shed what no longer serves us. It’s part of the process.

We may need to let go of what we no longer enjoy, what no longer fits us, what’s calling to be released.

So that we may finally see what’s real for us today. Who we authentically are.

So, what about you? Do you know the answers to these questions? Or maybe different ones you have?

I urge you to pull out a pen and paper and find out who you are at an even deeper level.

As always, I love hearing from you so feel free to leave a comment below or get in touch at natalie@nataliematushenko.com. I would love to know how you are feeling these days!

Happy Tuesday!

 xoxo,

Natalie

 

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